Gay Flirting Tips

Flirting Advice

Ever found yourself in a gay club, gay bar or even office, desperately wanting to catch someone you fancy’s attention? We know that this can be one of the most awkward experiences if you are not too confident in yourself, or just don’t know how to flirt with another gay person. The main thing about flirting is that it should always be fun, and it happens when you least expect it... There are some basic key rules in gay flirting... Eye contact, Body Movement, Physical Contact and Conversation forms part of the success recipe to Flirting.

Eye Contact

You should always make sure to make eye contact with the other person. Even if the person you are flirting with is in the other corner of the club, making eye contact is still essential. The expression you show with your eyes and eye brows is essential. You can always try and work in a friendly, flirting wink to the other gay person.

Body Movement

The way you show off your body is an important part of the gay flirting process. Push your breast outwards while holding your gaze. Note not to mirror the other gay person’s body posture. Move glidingly with music while in a club. Something to look out for is if the other person is playing with his hair or touching his face. A lot of smiling, lip licking, open mouthed laughing and teeth flashing are all good signs to your flirting. While sitting down, a posture with legs crossed towards you or, an open legged posture facing you is an also a positive sign!

Physical Contact

When flirting with someone, leave them to do the touching... sings of successful flirting is when the other person is playing with his hair or touching his mouth. If the person is flirting back or is interested he would want to touch you and would even reach out to do so. There could also be playing with each other’s hands. The other person could even offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you.

Conversation

The way the other person speaks to you and answer your questions could indicate if they are interested. You could specifically look at the tone and speed of the conversation... does it mirror yours? Lots of laughter shows the person is enjoying your conversation. If you are in a group the person would single you out to get personal attention by you.

 
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